After a few weeks of talking about it, I took advantage of the girls being out of town to redo Michele’s side of the office.
I surprised her with it today when we got home from the airport. Happily, she loved it.
After a few weeks of talking about it, I took advantage of the girls being out of town to redo Michele’s side of the office.
I surprised her with it today when we got home from the airport. Happily, she loved it.
In life you need to be careful that you understand the price of things.
Work has been keeping me exceedingly busy these days. It’s been a slow but gradually ramp up of things to do, but now I find myself completely out of juice when I get home. There’s lots to do and I power up at the office to get things done, but the to-do list never seems to get any smaller. When I do clear out some space by finishing something it invariably is replaced with a stack twice as high.
I’m not complaining. With my personality, I crave the challenge and power of this kind of job, but it does have it’s price.
At home, I focus on the girls, the one I married and the two I helped make. They really don’t care about my title or job or the latest project, they just want me to do the daddy thing and pay attention to them. Even when I think I’m out of juice, I crank up the reserves and try to get the job done.
Once they go to sleep, I have the brief time when I’m free. Stacks of crap surround my desk. A site redesign sketch lays untouched for months. Multiple projects await my attention. Rants that course though my brain on the daily commute don’t get written. Even the escape of video games loses it’s allure.
Not that I’m sad, but I notice that I’ve hunkered down. Scaling down life to the bare essentials: family, work, and a brief decompress. The world passes me by. Emails go unreturned. Phone calls don’t get made. Friends grow.
So the cost of success appears to be losing track of many things. Today I realized that my best friend lost 100 pounds and I had no fucking clue. What the fuck?
I mean I know I’m not good about keeping in touch with people. That’s where Michele backstops me. But I mean really how can I miss out on something like that and it catch me unaware?
Everything in life has a cost, it just sucks that you don’t always realize the price until you’ve paid it.
The best thing about being at home when the girls are gone is not showering or shaving until I offend myself with my personal aroma. It reminds me of bachelorhood…

A while ago I saw a post about Picopad on the Lifehacker site. I often run into situations where I want to write something down and don’t have anything to use. Sometimes at lunch I end up writing notes on scraps of magazines and any other paper I can find.
The Picopad promised to give me a pen and a pad that fit in my wallet. I had to give it a try.







On my way to work, I recently noticed that McDonald’s was advertising that they had a full coffee bar going. I’m not a coffee snob, so I decided to check it out one morning.






Exactly one year ago, I bet Phil Torrone, one of the Make guys, that the term ‘podcast’ woudl be gone in a year.
This morning I opened the local paper and this is what I saw.

At work, I’ve been describing the recent Apple/Disney deal on providing TV content for the iPod as “crossing the Rubicon” because of how I feel that it changes everything to television not just for Disney, but for the entire industry.
Most bloggers about the deal say ‘meh’ about the Apple/Disney combo deriding the fact that it doesn’t address every single concern about downloadable media.
However, Mark Cuban gets it. In a clear way, he describes how this is truly a turning point in the business of entertainment.
My job just got a lot more interesting.
Today at lunch we had a big crowd, nine of us, so the discussion topics were broad and we ended up talking about spoilers. A spoiler is a key bit of plot information that can ruin a movie or book if it is learned in advance.
The discussion was about how long should someone expect others to avoid mentioning spoilers around them. Several of us had seen Serenity and were being careful not to reveal the spoiler. (BTW, you shoudl go and see Serenity. It’s a great movie and you won’t be disappointed.)
None of us could find the heart to support spoiler queens, but a variety of opinions abound.
Several different viewpoints were mentioned:
No Spoiler Freedom – This silly notion was only supported by one truly strange lunch participant. He believes that spoilers shoudl flow freely and makes no effort to conceal spoilers form others. Obviously a fringe belief.
Once a film is out of theaters – Also mentioned as a ‘three month rule’. The concept that people be given a chance to see the movie without worry of spoilers. Once it’s no longer in theaters, it’s open game for discussion. ” I mean, you had your chance, right?” Two people held this as correct.
One month after DVD release – A variation on the out of theater viewpoint. The idea here is that it s understandable to miss a film in the theater, but once it’s on DVD, you have a month to buy/rent it before the spoilers rain down upon you. Two people thought this true.
No blanket policy – The idea here is that each situation warrants it own spoiler rules. An action film and a who-done-it need different spoiler policies. Three people (including me) felt this to be most reasonable.
That left one person undecided. Our co-worker Jasmin is from Germany and many of our idioms (like spoilers) don’t make sense to her. I tried to explain. Here is the rough transcript.
Jasmin: What is the spoiler?
Michael: Well, it’s like revealing the secret of a movie before it’s time.
Jasmin: Huh?
Michael: It’s like finding out that Darth Vader is Luke’s father before seeing Empire Strikes back…
Jasmin: Darth Vader is Luke’s father?
Michael: You didn’t know that?
Jasmin: No…
Others at the table: *gasp*
Michael: But, umm, err. See I just spoiled that for you.
As you can tell, spoilers are a tough thing to deal with in groups. Jasmin’s lucky I didn’t reveal something important like the fact that soylent green is people…
So loyal Cruft readers, what are the proper spoiler rules in your humble opinon?